We’re deep into January and most people have already forgotten their resolutions, goals, or word of the year.
But WHY? It felt so compelling on January 1st! Most people make common mistakes – like lacking reflecTION or not having a plan. Transformation is tough, but possible.
Mistake #3 for why goals aren’t achieved? LACK OF SUPPORT.
Did you know your brain thrives on connection? Neuroscience shows that oxytocin, the “bonding hormone,” enhances trust and collaboration. Yet, many high-capacity leaders isolate themselves, believing they must carry the weight alone.
One of the biggest leadership lies is that leadership is lonely. It doesn’t have to be
Imagine this instead: As a high performer, you’re surrounded by a diverse support system—coaches, peers, and even challengers who offer fresh perspectives. These relationships provide the essential encouragement, perspective, and feedback to sharpen your leadership edge. They keep you energized and grounded. They remind you that you’re not alone and you’re not crazy.
This week, identify your Top 5. Who inspires you? Who challenges you to grow? Who’s actively supporting your goals? Reach out to one person and strengthen that connection.
If you want more support, this is the reason we do coaching in groups. It’s more effective than 1:1 coaching. We’re better together and we belong to one another.
Your success depends on the strength of your support system.